Outfit of the day. Night Vision.

I wore this to my nephew's birthday party at a local pool, and by the time I got home the sun had bid us adieu. I had to use my flash, and I felt like a deer caught in car's headlights. I kind of looked liked it too.

Outfit details: Top- Hand me down. Pants- Urban Outfitters. Gabriel Brother's. Tank- Old Navy. Shoes- Old Navy. Bracelet- Gift.

I hope everyone is having a lovely Wednesday. I'm headed to Pittsburgh tonight so I won't be online much. I will probably still be tweeting if you follow me on Twitter. I also want to say hello to my new followers. I really appreciate your support!

With all my heart,
<3 Vanessa

Outfit of the day. Worth it's weight in gold.

Friday I was all over the Cleveland area. First I went to see the reggae band Carlos Jones with my friend (she is also my brother's girlfriend) down at Cropicana on Whiskey Island. It started pouring during the band's set so they had to cut the concert short. Then we headed to Melt in Lakewood, and I can't believe it took me so long to go there. I had a monte cristo, and it was pure heaven. Afterwards we met my boyfriend, my brother, and some other friends for drinks at The Tap House. It was really fun but I was so tired by the time I got home I could barely keep my eyes open.

Outfit details: Blazer- Selene Sport. Burlington Coat Factory. Tank- Old Navy. Gabriel Brothers. Jeans- Express. Thrifted. Shoes- Wet Seal. Bracelet- Charlotte Russe. Necklace/Layered Long Chain- HSN. Gift.

I start my summer class on Wednesday. It feels so weird to be going back to school, and it finally feels real to me. On Wednesday night I leave for Pittsburgh because my boyfriend's sister is getting married this weekend. It is going to be one crazy busy week.

Do you ever have pieces that are worth their weight in gold? This blazer is one those pieces for me. I've owned it for at least six years now. If I would have known how much use I was going to get out of it I would have bought every one left in my size. It fits in all the right places, and I can count on it every. single. time.

With all my heart,
<3 Vanessa

A little summer shopping.

I did a little shopping the other day because I had to return something. Makes sense right? Get your money back, and then spend a little more. I was definitely in a summer kind of mood. All I wanted was shorts, dresses, and sandals.

I love these bermuda shorts but...

 

I'm not so sure about the sequined back pockets.

For $5 though, I can't complain.

Renee Daniel. $5.

This dress is so easy, simple, it's organic, and perfect for a hot summer day. So, I got it in two colors.

Organic Beach Wear. $8.

 Ruffle detail.

 Organic Beach Wear. $8.

 Ruffle detail.

Sexy Angel. $5.

The best part about these white sandals was the name brand. Sexy Angel. Who on earth would name a shoe brand Sexy Angel? Could you imagine getting stationary with that company name on it? I feel a little silly wearing the brand, but at least no one can see it. Maybe I shouldn't have announced that on the internet. Oh well, I'll still be wearing these sandals all summer long.

With all my heart,
<3 Vanessa

P.S. Everything is from Gabriel Brothers. It's a lot like TJ Maxx but the prices are cheaper.

How to ask someone to guest post for your blog.

When I first started blogging guest posting was this area that I wanted to pursue but I wasn't sure how to start. I didn't really know how to write a guest post, and I was nervous to ask other people to be on my blog. Here are a few tips from me to you on how to ask someone to guest post, or be featured on your blog.

1. Just do it.
I put off asking my first Blogs From The Heart feature until they contacted me about something unrelated. Then I just started emailing my favorite blogs, and asking them to be featured. It was a little nerve racking at first because I really respected the bloggers, and I wanted them to participate. But, every single person I've contacted has been kind, and happy to be featured.

2. Ask nicely.
Remember the person you asking to guest post, or feature is a person. Let it come from the heart, and ask kindly. Don't make crazy demands, and make it as easy as possible for them to guest post for you. Remember that they are doing you a favor, and taking time to write for your blog. Don't expect for a blogger to always say yes, and if they say no it's okay. I have never had anyone say no to my Blogs From The Heart feature if that makes you feel any better about asking a fellow blogger to guest post.

3. Don't rush them.
Timing is key. Give the blogger you are asking enough time write the post. Makes sense right? Don't ask a blogger on Tuesday to have a guest post done for Thursday. You both will be running around like chickens with their heads cut off to get the post up in time.

4. Ask the people you've built blogging relationships with.
The best guest posting for your blog is going to be from people who are already involved in your blogosphere. They are going to know your readers, and the all around feel of your blog. So go for the people closest to you who care about your blog, and your readers. Not only will your experience with them be better, it will be a great read too.

5. Return those emails.
Last but not least, and this may be the most important, return their emails to you. I don't think I even need to explain this one. Don't leave them hanging.

I hope you guys like this post, and found it helpful. What advice do you have when asking someone to guest post?

With all my heart,
<3 Vanessa

Outfit of the day. Out of pajama land.

So... I have sort of been not getting dressed lately. I mean I have been for work, obviously. I don't get to dress how I want for work, my work clothing is all about function. I have been in a place called pajama land after work. It's a glorious place, but not necessarily glamorous.

I had to venture out this past weekend to get some nourishment, and find some entertainment. Which meant an over priced salad, and a two movies from Red Box. I have some raging weekends kids. Don't try, and keep up with this girl, or you will get burned out fast.

  Outfit details: Top- Thrifted. Jeans- Old Navy. Shoes- Go Maxx. Cuff- Thrifted. Beaded Necklace- Gift. Chain Necklace- Steve & Barry's.

Shortly after taking these I dropped my tigers eye cuff bracelet, and it broke into a million pieces. I don't know how I will go on without it. I will be playing this song on repeat to ease the pain.

How do you go on when you break a favorite piece of jewelery?

With all my heart,
<3 Vanessa

Blogs from the heart. The Loud Mouth.

Stephanie is the creator of The Loud-Mouth lifestyle blog. I found her blog through the lovely Citizen Rosebud. I love her blog's strong voice, and it's motto "you only get one life, so live it loudly" (direct quote from blog). Whether it's her style, vegetarian beliefs, or her changing careers she definitely lives by that motto. She blogs from Los Angeles California where she works at Ann Taylor.

The Loud-Mouth is a little glimpse into Stephanie's lifestyle. Her outfit posts are full of her wearable, and chic everyday style. If you are in the LA area you can check out some of the tasty restaurants she reviews. She has a passion for photography which shows through in her blog's photos. You can find her prints for sale on Etsy.

 

(post: springing into season)

Keep a lookout for her on Twitter, Bloglovin', and Facebook.

Why did you start blogging?

I've been blogging for half my life now. :) It started when I was twelve... I simply wanted a place to post my poetry, stories and updates for friends.  I didn't have a public blog until six months ago when I started the-loudmouth.com!  The main reason I went public is because I wanted to share my life with the world -- not that it's an especially exciting one, but I fully believe that by living life to the fullest (AKA loudest!) I will inspire others to do the same.  Life is too short to not love and experience as much as possible!

What is your favorite thing about blogging?

I really love that it's an outlet for my creativity.  It's so satisfying and gives me something to look forward to in my daily routine!

 

(post: red, white, & true)

Why do you think having your own unique personal style is important?

When one's personal style reflects his or her personality, he or she will automatically be unique -- because we're all different!  Your style should show the world who you are... otherwise, no one will get to know awesome you. :)

What color or print combination have you been loving lately?

I've been wearing a lot of neutrals paired with pops of color -- yellows, oranges and pinks.  Summery stuff!

(post: no paparazzi please)

What is your favorite item of clothing, or accessory?

I love all of my accessories equally...  I own an obscene amount of cheap jewelry.  I couldn't pick just one piece!

What are your favorite stores to shop at on a budget?

Well, Ann Taylor of course, but I'm biased because it's my workplace.  They really do have great sales all the time though, so go check it out!  And you can never go wrong with Forever 21 and their cute, cheap trends.

What is your best money saving fashion tip?

Ask yourself, "How often am I going to wear this?  Is it worth the price?"  Then decide!

 (post: birthday blog event: contest winner & what I wore)

Go live your life loudly with The Loud-Mouth.

With all my heart,
&lt;3 Vanessa

Two hair products I'm loving. My first video blog.

This is my first video of me talking on here, it was a little awkward talking to a camera. I hope you like the little video I made, and if you want check out the products.

If you all want me to I will do a tutorial on my make-up in this video.I will try to speak up, and not be so awkward in my next video.

With all my heart,
<3 Vanessa

Outfit of the day. Plaid about you.

Preface: This is not what I wore yesterday. Why? Yesterday I looked like a. hot. mess. Not saying I look fantastic in these but I didn't even begin to try to put myself together. It was pjs all day.

 Outfit details: Top- Walmart. Jeans- Express. Thrifted. Shoes- Old Navy.

While I don't have much to say (because my back is still on the fritz). I want to thank everyone for the good vibes you've been sending my way. Hopefully my back will feel better soon. I found my little heating pad does wonders. I hope everyone is having a lovely week.

With all my heart,
<3 Vanessa

My favorite summer breakfast with a side of a trip to the ER.

So yesterday was a little out of the ordinary for me. I've been having back pain for about a month, and a half. I kept putting off going to get it looked at. I was at work, and my back hurt so bad I was having a hard time breathing through the pain.

Cue me leaving work immediately, and then going to the ER. Don't worry it wasn't super dramatic or anything. I mean I walked in, and it was pretty empty. I was just in a lot pain and needed to figure out why. I got poked, and prodded. After four lovely hours I found I out I had a small kidney stone, a urinary tract infection, and I pulled a muscle in my back. That means my back will keep hurting for a few weeks. I don't want to gross anyone out, but I thought some of you would ask what they found out.

Now to the yummy part of the post. I took these pictures on Saturday with full intention of sharing this yummy treat. I have been loving this simple breakfast lately. (Now I may need to lay off the yogurt though). It's almost like having frozen yogurt, and it's really affordable.

I may have taken a few bites before this photograph ; )

First layer about 1/2 cup of frozen fruit on the bottom of the bowl. I used Great Value Berry Medley. Then on top of that add 1/2 cup of plain vanilla yogurt. I used Great Value low fat Vanilla yogurt. To top it off sprinkle 1/3c of Kashi Go Lean Crunch on top. Let it sit a for minute or two before you eat it so the fruit has a chance to defrost a little.

You can even make this the night before, and store it in your fridge. Just make sure you don't add the cereal until your ready to eat it. This packed full of protein, and perfect on a hot day. It's also great if you're craving ice cream, and want a healthier alternative.

I'm going to go lay in bed for all of eternity now. I hope everyone is having a great week.

With all my heart,
<3 Vanessa

Outfit of the day. Easy Breezy.

I feel like this was such a comfortable, and chic outfit to just throw on. I went to the movies, and saw some friends in this outfit. A dress felt perfect for the nice warm weather we are currently having.

I've been trying to wear more dresses, and skirts lately. I like them but I feel kind of fussy in them. I'm a very laid back person, and I don't like to constantly adjust my clothes. I also haven't figured out how to gracefully get out of my car in a dress. I know a lot of women say wearing a dress is so easy, and I want to know if there is a secret I'm missing.

Outfit details: Dress- Merona. Thrifted. Flip Flops- Old Navy. Bracelet- Thrifted.

Any tips on how you take the fuss out of a dress?

With all my heart,
<3 Vanessa

Outfit of the day. Blinded by the light.

It has been so gorgeous lately. So gorgeous that my eyes were watering from the sun shining right in them. I had to put on my sweet polarized sunglasses from the fishing department at Wal Mart so I wouldn't look like I was crying. I'm not a vampire I swear.

 Outfit details: Top- Hand me down. Tank- Old Navy. Pants- Old Navy. Bag- Thrifted. Shoes- Old Navy. Bracelet- Gift. Sunglasses- Wal Mart.

Things I learned from this outfit:

1. Brown flip flops with my black pants looks kind of weird.
2. This shirt hates these jeans, and creates an annoying line/muffin top.
3. Sunglasses make everyone look cooler.
4. I need more summer clothes asap.
5. You can never have enough lint rollers.

With all my heart,
<3 Vanessa

May outfit round up.

May brought a lot of rain, and felt more like April. I was excited for summer to come but we only had one hot day all month long. I think my favorite outfit all month long was my paper doll outfit (green jacket, pink top, and polka dot skirt). I tried something new, and I really liked the outcome of it.

 

Which outfit is your favorite?

With all my heart,

<3 Vanessa

Outfit of the day. Totally different on the hanger.

Do you ever expect something to look totally different on you than the hanger? I got this shirt from Sarah (my boyfriend's sister), and I wanted to wear it right away. At first I wasn't sure if this top work on me. It has some ruffles on the bust, and I was afraid it would accentuate my bust.

 Outfit details: Top- Hand me down. Carpi's- Brooklyn Girl. Dots. Shoes- Kmart. Bracelets- Gift. Purse- Thrifted.

Then I put it on, and was surprised that it seems to do the opposite, and balance my body's shape out. I really love the color, cut, and even the bust ruffles. Who knew? Bust ruffles are my new bff.

We need to chat about this bag. I mean when I thrifted the bag it was love at first sight.. I feel like it goes with everything, and adds a little something something to any outfit. The boyfriend thinks it looks to 80's and then I corrected him because I think he meant 70's. Poor boy needs to get schooled in fashion. I hope everyone is having a great week!

With all my heart,
<3 Vanessa

P.S. Can you tell it was outrageously sunny out when I took these pictures? Cause it was.

Blogs from the heart. Lady M.

"Hi everyone! My name is Monique and I am from the blog Lady M! I've known Vanessa for a little while, we met through our blogs! Vanessa is such an inspiration to me and I am delighted to be featured on her blog today!"

Monique from Lady M is a fashion blogger from Australia. I found her blog from her commenting on my blog or vice versa. That is why I never forget that exploring new blogs is a great way to find awesome new blogs, and blogging buddies.

(post: it wasn't love at first sight.)

Lady M is a fashion, and personal style blog. Her blog gives you great advice on how to style pieces in your wardrobe, how bloggers have styled the piece, and of course where to buy them. In her outfit posts she displays her chic, and classic style. One thing you will find is she is always in the opposite season of the United States. Currently Australia is experiencing the early months of winter!

You can also spot her on Twitter, Facebook, and Bloglovin'!

Why did you start blogging?

I followed a few blogs for quite some time, posting outfits always looked so fun! I have always had an interest in fashion, necklaces in particular and eventually want to design and make my own! Blogging seemed like the perfect avenue. Blogging has opened my eyes to so many things in fashion, I have taken so many more risks in my outfits and have learned to love the wardrobe that I already have! Blogging is an outlet from the crazy world that is my life, I am very busy in my life, but at the end of the day it is always great to come home and share my life with so many of my wonderful followers!

 (post: i am conjuring up a surprise!)

What is your favorite thing about blogging?

I have to say the people I have met. I have met so many amazing people as a result of my blog, and although they do not live around the corner for me (approximately 24 hours away) it has been great to get to know so many people, their culture and their unique style that has all contributed to my style today! Reading other blogs daily gives a girl so much inspiration!

Why do you think having your own unique personal style is important?

Every person is different and unique, no two people are the same, your clothes represent who you are! Your clothes should be a reflection of your true self, and I believe that this is really important. In such a materialistic world, it is important to stay true to yourself and not fall into the trap of trying to be someone you are not!

 (post: are you sick of these shoes yet?)

What color or print combination have you been loving lately?

I have been loving pretty patterns! I have always been a straight one color girl, but lately I have embraced patterns of all kinds!  I would never in a million years have worn bold patterns a couple of weeks ago! But now, I love it! I even bought a leopard print dress last week! You will have to stay tuned for that one!

What is your favorite item of clothing, or accessory?

I am OBSESSED with statement necklaces! I love making a statement, no matter the occasion! I own at least 40 (in case you were wondering just how obsessed I am). I am also investing time into making my own necklaces as sought of a business venture! You will need to stay tuned for that one also!

 (post: the perfect shoe)

What are your favorite stores to shop at on a budget?

I live in Australia, so many of the shops I like to shop at you don’t have! I do like shopping at target when I am on a budget! They have many staple items too for such an affordable price!

What is your best money saving fashion tips?

Remix your own wardrobe! Go shopping in your existing closet and mix things you ordinarily wouldn’t!  It is free and you will learn more about the wardrobe you have.

(post: i have a little secret!)

Say hello to Lady M!

With all my heart,
<3 Vanessa

Wal Mart dollar shirt haul and a little ethical thinking.

The other day we were at Wal Mart in the check out line, and my eyes gazed upon racks overflowing with clothing for $1. I kind of hyperventilated, and may have skipped to the rack of clothes. I feel like some people don't understand how cheap I am, and this is me flying my freak flag for the world to see.

I can't believe I am going to admit this online but I kind of like the Miley Cyrus junior's clothes at Wal Mart. They run really really small but the fit is more modern than most of Wal Mart's clothing. To give you an idea I'm a medium at most stores, and I'm an XL in the Miley Cyrus brand.

Anyways on to the goods.

I also bought this top in blue, and it is pictured here in yesterday's outfit post.

I love getting great deals but, I'm also fighting this other side of me. I know the kind of impact mass produced clothing creates. I hate increasing world suck. I don't want people to be paid pennies to make my clothes, or create tons of waste from "throw away" clothing. When I'm facing a rack of $1 clothing I will leave clothes behind if I won't wear them. I think that's why we as consumers need to be careful, even when shopping at great sales, to show restraint.

What's your take on shopping ethically, and staying on a tight budget?

With all my heart,
<3 Vanessa

Outfit of the day. Trying jeggings.

These are the jeggings I bought the other day on my trip to Old Navy. They are really comfy, but are cut so much closer than regular jeans. I wasn't quite sure how to wear them. I know you are supposed to wear longer tops with regular leggings, and I wasn't sure if the same rule applies for jeggings. I paired them with a long tank, and thought the open plaid top offset the tight bottoms.

 Outfit details: Top- Wal Mart. Tank- Forever 21. Jeggings- Old Navy. Shoes- Old Navy. Bracelet- Thrifted Necklace- Steve & Barry's.

Do you think jeggings should be styled like leggings? I would love some ideas on how you guys style your jeggings.

With all my heart,

<3 Vanessa